The good, the bad, and the @#$%ing insane
I've been quiet for a few days; haven't had much to say, really. Christmas came and went, I had a cold, things were quiet. I'm feeling a bit better and am heading back to the gym this morning for the...
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Goodbye, 2014
So, let's review, shall we?In the past two weeks, we had two family deaths, two days apart. John and I are now both sick, so that's two colds. We've had to deal with his two sisters behaving like...
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Onward
Happy New Year, y'all. It's now January 4, so the holidays are firmly behind us, and good riddance, if I may say so.I'm almost afraid to feel some cautious hope, because the last couple of weeks have...
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He didn't stay long, but...
... he made an impression. :-)First spanking of the New Year. It was a brief visit; too brief. But I was glad to see him. That pleasurable pain temporarily snapped me out of the malaise I have been in...
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An informal poll for my readers
Well, not really a poll; more of a single question.On FetLife, there was a thread running about what we call ourselves. What should become our defining word, our recognizable identifier. The most...
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Now I understand
Sometime in the late 1980s, I was still deeply in the spanking closet, had zero experience with it, and knew nothing about scene practices, dynamics or ethics. Because there was no Internet, I blindly...
View Article"I'll be there for you."
No, I'm not channeling the ubiquitous repeats of Friends. But you all knew that phrase, right? You've probably heard it dozens, maybe hundreds of times in your lifetime, from various people. It's one...
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Can you say "FUCK IT," boys and girls?
That's where I'm at, kids. Just sad and mad and needy and weepy and frustrated and empty inside and not sleeping well and envious of people having fun and BLECCCCCHHHHHH!!!!Ā I need a spanking like...
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Fantasy vs. reality
OK, we all love fantasy. Even pragmatically minded pedants like me enjoy a bit of it now and then. After all, everything we read and watch is some sort of fantasy (unless it's non-fiction). TV shows...
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What a load of crop
Load of crop -- see what I did there?These damn pictures never, ever do the redness justice. Oh well.Today was way overdue. Today was about reconnecting, about reawakening flesh and feelings that had...
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Correspondence Hall of Shame, 1/23
This is my first CHoS of 2015, yes? Many thanks to Jade for putting the above photo on my Facebook page. I found it quite suitable. :-)I like to spank you and enjoy giving you painful pleasure before I...
View ArticleBreathless -- a parody
Last week while in session with Steve, I found myself once or twice struggling to catch my breath, because I was feeling things so intensely. As I consciously regulated my breathing, my head was...
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Surf's up, panties down
We had an amazing adventure yesterday. On Monday, it rained a little, not much more than a drizzle, but combined with the winds we've had, it cleared out all the haze and gunk and left bright blue...
View ArticleEvolution
No, this isn't going to be a discussion about Darwin vs. creationism.Recently on the often-mentioned and the often-inflammatory FetLife, there was a discussion about how we, as individuals in the...
View ArticleThe FSOG stupidity continues, and continues, and continues
Well now. As we approach the February 14 release of the Fifty Shades of Grey movie, the stupid is in full force. I honestly don't know how I'm going to survive this, folks. I'm already foaming at the...
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More top logic
In other words, utter BS. :-)That little road trip we took last week to the beach? You know, the one that was his idea, the one he surprised me with, the one for which he rearranged everything in the...
View ArticleWell, this blows
John and I both got sick again.Last weekend, he was just coming down with something again, a mere month after recovering from the last cold. That's par for John, since his immune system is pretty much...
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Happy birthday, Steve
Well, it was actually last Sunday. But we got to have our celebration yesterday.I warned him in advance that I'd had a cold and I wasn't sure if I was still contagious or not, giving him the...
View ArticleForget flowers, forget jewelry...
... because on Valentine's Day, nothing says "I Love You" quite like...That's right. AnĀ Edible Anus.Go ahead, click and read. This is not a joke; it's real. These are chocolates that are produced from...
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Valentine weekend
John and I had a lovely weekend. Quiet, nothing fancy, just the two of us, dinner at one of our favorite restaurants, chocolate, sweet cards. My favorite moment of the weekend? When I pulled into his...
View ArticleSome hump-day blathering
Sorry, no Steve scene this week. The poor dear called me yesterday with a barely recognizable voice. He insists I did not give him my cold, because he came down with it a week after he'd seen me... I...
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Ohhhhhhkay, fine
Ya know, on Wednesday, knowing I didn't have a session to blog about and that I was going to be busy for while, I tried to post something that might generate some interesting and thoughtful...
View ArticleFun weekend
On Saturday, John and I went to a belated surprise birthday party for Paul Kennedy. His birthday was in January, but he was in the UK at the time. So several of us convened at Alex and Paul's house...
View ArticleBuh-BYE, Blogger
* * *I HAVE MOVED!* * *Listen up, kids. I'm sure you all know by now that Blogger has waged war on "adult" blogs, and will no longer allow nudity or sexual photos after March 23, 2015. If your blog...
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So, this is Christmas...
... and what have I done? Not a blessed thing. I have been felled with a cold. It started on Tuesday night and was in full bloom by yesterday. So today, as I did yesterday, I'm going to burrow in...
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